by vivian | Sep 26, 2018 | Blog, Relationships, Self Love
One of the hardest things about leaving an abusive relationship was grieving the loss of the fantasy relationship I had in my head. The one I’d been waiting and hoping for. For so long. The perfect man I thought my ex would one day become. The man of my dreams...
by vivian | Sep 19, 2018 | Blog, Relationships
I’ve lived through many dramatic typhoons in my combined 11 years living in Hong Kong. But, never a Super Typhoon! Heading directly our way, which had just decimated parts of the Philippines. Not to mention, we live on a boat! There was an eery calm before the...
by vivian | Sep 5, 2018 | Blog, Relationships
How can I love someone who abuses me? Can a narcissist love? I get asked this all the time, mostly by women praying and hoping I’ll say yes. They’re looking for hope and confirmation that if they stay, persevere and keep proving their love their partners...
by vivian | Aug 22, 2018 | Blog, Relationships, Self Love
Recovery from an abusive relationship. How long does it take? When will this pain end? I get asked this a lot by followers of my Blog. One woman wrote this recently – about recovering from her abusive ex: I need some words / advice / links. I am one year with no...
by vivian | Aug 15, 2018 | Blog, Career, Relationships
Always trust your gut Gut instincts in relationships can be the most important thing. I learned the hard way. Always trust your gut. Did you know that deep within the tissue of your gut is the enteric system? It’s made up of the same cells found in your brain....
by vivian | Aug 8, 2018 | Blog, Relationships
Setting boundaries keeps you safe. No boundaries? Setting boundaries keeps you safe. How do I stand up to bullies and narcissists? With one simple thing. If you have weak boundaries it signals to others they can crash through them and you are easy to manipulate....
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