by vivian | Nov 1, 2017 | Blog, Relationships
What happens when you leave an abusive relationship? For so long we’ve wanted the emotional rollercoaster of an abusive relationship to end. When it does we’re euphoric at first. I no longer had to walk on eggshells. I could do what made me feel happy...
by vivian | Oct 25, 2017 | Blog, Relationships, Self Love
Many people have asked me: how do you learn to trust again, after coming out of an abusive relationship? One has even said to me: ‘It’s too late for me, I’ll never find love again. Well, that’s bollocks if you ask me!...
by vivian | Oct 18, 2017 | Blog, Relationships, Self Love
Why do some women (or men) stay, when others see the red flags and veer away? That’s because we get in life what we think we are worth. If we think we are not good enough, unloveable, then we attract those who treat us as unworthy of being...
by vivian | Oct 4, 2017 | Blog, Relationships, Self Love
When you leave an abusive or narcissistic person, the withdrawal feels as painful as weaning off heroin. It did for me, at least. What happens is that you’ve been numb for so long. You’ve not been allowed to feel any emotions. If you do you’re told you’re...
by vivian | Oct 3, 2017 | Blog, Relationships, Self Love
Going Cold Turkey after an abusive relationship is the quickest way to heal. I’ve heard many victims of domestic violence say they feel the same as I did after leaving an abusive or controlling relationship. I wonder if it’s the same for you? Things like:...
by vivian | Sep 27, 2017 | Blog, Relationships, Self Love
Leaving an abusive relationship is when you need to stay strong. What happens when we build our self-esteem? What happens when we stop taking responsibility for an abusive partners actions and by default that means they have to be accountable for them? ...
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