by vivian | Jan 8, 2020 | Uncategorized
Avoiding pain Running from pain, I was running from myself. I was shocked when I heard this: Most of us run away from pain, not towards pleasure. Why do we go back over and over again to abusive relationships? Even when we know how much it hurts us? Why does our...
by vivian | Dec 26, 2019 | Uncategorized
Life is too short. It really is. What’s brought this home to me so clearly is that my mother recently passed away. It wasn’t unexpected because she was 98, but she wasn’t in a nursing home. She was in great form. But she died very suddenly. Anyone...
by vivian | Dec 11, 2019 | Uncategorized
There’s one thing that bugs me about therapy. There are great counselors out there I’m sure, but then there are others who seem to want to keep you needing to rely on them for years. And how much does that cost you emotionally and financially? One woman I have...
by vivian | Nov 18, 2019 | Uncategorized
Tired of being the perfect girlfriend or wife in failed relationships that hurt you? Sick of living a secret life of fear? A fear of the future, that you’re not good enough or that you’re a failure. You want to believe you will find love again in a...
by vivian | Oct 24, 2019 | Uncategorized
Doubting myself. Overcoming doubt. I had a bad week recently. One of those weeks where self-doubt filled my head. You know the monster that self-doubt can become? Well, I let that little monster grow in my head. I was having this crazy self-doubt about what I am doing...
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